Doing what ‘most’ people do will only get you what ‘most’ people have. This is true for anything in your life.
If you want to lose weight, you cannot use most people as a model to follow because most people aren’t losing weight. Same goes for financial success, satisfaction with your job or social life etc.
Most people don’t have the body they want, a career that excites them, or a social life that’s worth reading about. If you want any of these things, then you can’t do what most people do…you gotta do something different. And this is where it gets tricky.
Identifying what NOT to do is easy, figuring out what TO do isn’t so obvious. This is why supplements and weight loss products exist, and how to get rich quick products, as well as books about having successful relationships etc.
Simply reading about this stuff is never good enough. Eventually you’ve got to put something into action and test it out.
You have to become and experiment of one. And try things out until you find one that works. But until you give something…anything different a legitimate try you’ll never know if it works.
The first step to making a real change in any part of your life is accepting the fact that you’re probably going to have to do something that ‘most’ people aren’t doing. The second step is accepting some level of persecution for doing something different from everyone else. This will always happen because most people will feel threatened when someone steps out of the norm and tries something different.
This happens alot with Eat Stop Eat because it is so different from what most people are doing.
Even though ESE works, most people cannot accept something so different. They’ll continue doing what most people do and continue living the lives that most people live.
I guess the ESE’ers like us will just have to talk amongst ourselves because ‘most’ people don’t want to hear it.
It’ll be our little secret.